Most interesting to me is how easily you can turn a question you rather not answer or find puzzling back on the person asked the question.
Usually your partner.
They go on the defensive & generally end up spilling their guts.
Which usually means they were hiding something anyhow.
By trying to catch you out over something you probably never did, they exposing themselves & how they think.
You don’t need to lie, they will keep backing themselves into a corner where only your ‘truths’ exist & their lies exposed.
Oh it hurts, really hurts, often wished it wasn’t so easy to do.
Sometimes ignorance is bliss.
But when you confronted with accusations have no basis on fact, usually there is more involved.
I guess it is better to learn it sooner than later.